At Slappas, we know that support takes many forms. For some, it’s comfortable footwear that carries them through recovery; for others, it’s the quiet strength of loved ones. During Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we wanted to share a husband’s perspective—because the journey impacts the whole family, not just the person diagnosed.
We spoke with Phil, whose wife Claire is a breast cancer survivor. His words are a heartfelt reminder of how love, honesty, and family can carry you through even the hardest times.
What has been the toughest part for you in supporting your wife through her breast cancer journey?
“The toughest part was keeping a consistent and positive attitude for our boys, who were still young. I wanted Claire to focus fully on her treatment and recovery, so I made sure I carried the load at home and stayed strong, even when it was difficult.”
Were there any moments that gave you both strength or made you laugh during this time?
“Claire’s positivity gave us all strength. The boys kept the fun alive at home, even during the toughest moments. One memory that still makes us laugh is when they helped shave Claire’s head and then went looking for wigs for her—it turned a heavy moment into something full of love and humour.”
What advice would you give to other husbands going through a similar experience?
“My advice is: be there for everything. Go to treatments, ask questions, and keep the kids informed rather than shielding them. Don’t be afraid to take on the family responsibilities—it gives your wife the time she needs to rest and recover.”
How did you keep going, what personally helped you cope, and what support would have been beneficial?
“Routine was key. Staying busy with work and family gave me structure and purpose. The support of family and friends made life easier too—don’t be afraid to ask for help. You don’t have to carry it all on your own.”
Phil’s story is one of resilience and love—reminding us that the fight against breast cancer isn’t faced alone. Behind every survivor is a network of supporters: partners, children, friends, and community.
That’s why at Slappas, we’re proud to support the National Breast Cancer Foundation with every pair of Pink, Pink Crystal, White, White Crystal and the New Limited Edition White with Pink Crystal Slappas sold we will donate $5 per pair to NBCF. Together, we can make the path to recovery just a little lighter.
How can you help?
Spread The Word - Help us spread the word about Breast Cancer - share this article, send it to your friends, tell people about it, update your social media.
Donate Directly - To Slappas Go Pink fundraising page or if you would like to donate directly NBCF have a donation page on their website. Just visit https://nbcf.org.au/donate/
Volunteer - Volunteers assist NBCF's business units, events team & promote awareness to the public if you’d like to volunteer visit https://nbcf.org.au/volunteer/
Buy A Pair of Slappa’s! - Spread awareness and help us raise money by buying a pair of Pink, Pink Crystal Slappas, White, White Crystal or the New Limited Edition White with Pink Crystals
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The Slappa's Team
Every donation, big or small, will get me closer to reaching my goal. Together, we can stop deaths from breast cancer.